About Silent Watchers:
It all started as a very warm friendship that eventually ended in marriage; once those dotted lines were signed, I was trapped and nothing on earth would have prepared me for the turmoil I was to experience.
My ex-spouse’s subtle unveiling as an abuser who thrived on control and subjection, created a dark wanton aura in the home which I never understood as Domestic Violence.
This book is a non-chronological narrative which recounts the horrors of domestic violence/abuse and its adverse effects on children over and above the primary receiver: the partner. It proffers solutions on both how to cope when found in such situations, and how to eventually make a safe exit for the sake of the wellbeing of the children- THE SILENT WATCHERS.
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Author Bio:
As early as six years old, Dot IkwerreGirl Acheru (DiGa) envisaged growing up to be a fierce lawyer however she ended up studying Foreign Languages and Literatures, with a major in French.
She was recruited as a Linguist at her first job in 2000, in the office of Rtd General Anthony Ukpo (of blessed memories), then as a documents translator for Le Meridien Ogeyi place Hotels from French to English and stood as a liaison between the French and English teams.
She proceeded to function in varying capacities in the Oil and Gas sector in Port Harcourt Rivers State Nigeria and this nudged her career towards Management. She later relocated to the United Kingdom where she acquired a Masters of Arts in Management, in Middlesex University, London alongside several certifications in Project Management, PRINCE2, Business Analysis, ISO, ITIL and more. She also has a diploma in Theology from Cambridge University.
With her qualifications she became a high profile U.K. Certified Project Manager in the Public Sector, while working with charities like Watoto, Compassion UK, Crisis, and within the busy schedule. She released her first E.P. album in 2009 whose proceeds went towards supporting the aforementioned charities. Worthy of note are her skills as a multi-instrumentalist, singer, performer and producer. Unlike the average female, Dot is fierce and undeterred, though her marriage from 2011 culminated in abuse, her inner strength has preserved her sanity and unrelenting wits.
In the past 3 years of being free of abuse and fear, she has built Talk2Dot www.talk2dot.com which is a safe haven where women are taught all they need to know about Domestic Violence. Talk2Dot also signposts women to other Charities where they can find solace and more support. She also founded a Community Club that supports Black, Asian and Minority Ethnic (BAME) women in London and Greater London in a number of areas, www.yanapeople.com is funded by The National Lottery Fund, and other UK Boroughs and organisations.
DiGa (Dot IkwerreGirl Acheru) https://www.ikwerregirl.com/wegive is a branch of her ventures which in its four years of existence, is growing strong, supporting single mothers and widows in Nigeria with housing issues, rent, meals, groceries and financial assistance for business start-ups.
She is blessed with 2 amazing kids, her strength and her joy, her current driving force…the SILENT WATCHERS.